AVAILABLE APRIL 29, 2025
DATE SMarter
AVAILABLE APRIL 29, 2025
DATE SMarter
"This book is an exceptional guide for struggling daters."
This book will show you how to change your approach and change your results.
Date Smarter empowers you with strategic tools for finding meaningful connections—even if you don’t know where to start.
Let’s Be Honest:
Modern dating isn’t working for most people
Nearly 80% of dating-app users experience burnout
Nearly half of Americans say dating is harder now than it was 10 years ago
47% of Americans feel stressed about their love lives
72% of daters say they’ve been ghosted
Date Smarter is a research-driven guide for finding meaningful connection in the modern dating landscape
Rewrite Your Dating Story and Leave These Stats Behind
You don’t have to be another statistic. Modern dating can be overwhelming, but it’s not a lost cause. Inside these pages, you’ll find the right strategies, tools, and mindset, to get you dating smarter. This book will help you to:
- Gain Control over Your Dating Life: Learn a new mindset to take charge of your dating journey.
- Create a Game Plan: Date more intentionally by defining actionable steps that bring you closer to finding your person.
- Date Smarter, Not Harder: Save time and energy by developing strategies to streamline dating and avoid burnout.
- Establish Your Dealbreakers: Differentiate between non-negotiable values and areas where compromise is possible.
- Master the Meet-Cute: Uncover the best places for meeting people IRL (in real life) and learn research-backed tactics to spark conversations.
- Break the Ice: Gain the confidence to ask people out—or get them to ask you out—with no swiping required!
- Reframe Rejection: Treat rejection as a stepping stone to connection, leveraging tools like exposure therapy and compassionate self-talk.
- Optimize Your Online Dating: Improve how you date and interact online, following a data-driven approach tested by behavioral scientists at the top dating-app companies.
- Prioritize IRL: Understand why face-to-face interactions often lead to better connections—and how to use this to your advantage.
- Design Better Dates: Learn to plan memorable dates that fit your schedule and budget.
- Know When to Stop Dating: Discover the right time to stop your search and commit.
LOVE IS A NUMBERS GAME. HERE’S HOW YOU WIN.
In every area of life except for love, we accept that time, energy, and intentionality are required for success. Yet when it comes to the incredibly important question of a life partner, we’ve all heard “It’ll happen when it happens.” It’s supposed to be magical—a fairy tale. Of course love has its serendipitous moments, but it’s also a numbers game. Therefore it can and should be steered by informed choices. But how, exactly?
Enter dating coach Tim Molnar, who delves into the latest research in psychology, human behavior, relationship science, his own personal journey, and those of his clients. From these he has gleaned a uniquely modern approach that incorporates empirical data and encourages being proactive and strategic. His methods will help you optimize your search, give you confidence in your interactions with strangers, and offer hope during the tough moments along the way.
Numbers games can be daunting—but the good news is that if you understand how they work, you can find success in the end.
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You’ve made it this far, so you might be wondering:
Take a moment to think about your dating journey.
Frustration? Burnout? Wondering why love feels so elusive? It’s all valid. Modern dating has a way of making us feel like we’re not good enough, interesting enough, or lucky enough. But here’s the truth—your love story isn’t about luck.
Would they tell you to stop waiting for love and start taking action?
Would they tell you to Date Smarter?
